Overview

What happens when people don’t express themselves fully? What gets compromised? At what point does censoring our inner truth become too costly?

We see this everywhere. In workplaces and in relationships, what goes unspoken becomes the norm. That external culture then shapes how we process things internally. It shapes our self view, our world view, and our spiritual view. These lenses inform the way we think, and the stories we carry about ourselves and others.

Our emotions don’t simply disappear. They accumulate in the silence between meetings, the moments of judgement compounds, and this creates distance that grows between people who never quite found the language to resolve. These emotions live in the body, often unnoticed, until they can’t be ignored.

Rumah Empati works with individuals, teams, and organisations who are ready to change that. Whether you are a team navigating conflict, an individual carrying more than you let on, an organisation ready to build something that lasts, or someone who simply needs to come home to yourself, we meet you where you are.

Our work is grounded in Nonviolent Communication, social-emotional learning, and somatic practice. It is practical, experiential, and designed for adults who already sense that something needs to change.

Training

For teams ready to have the conversations they've been avoiding.

Most Southeast Asian workplaces don’t lack harmony. They lack honest conversation.

Disagreement goes underground while feedback stays unspoken. The real meeting happens after the meeting or in secret WhatsApp groups. In high-context cultures, gender and hierarchy add more filters. Junior voices stay quiet. Leaders get a partial picture. Over time, silence becomes the culture. When much is unspoken and unprocessed, the real data is lost.

We train teams to build understanding and trace the root cause of that silence. A shared language for clearer, more honest communication across differences.

Grounded in Nonviolent Communication, Social-Emotional Learning and ethical leadership. Facilitator-led, experiential, designed for adults who already know something isn’t working. 

Start with our foundation module, see it in a corporate setting, and watch it shift in your own life.

Coaching

For those who have been carrying more than they let on.

Most people who come to coaching are not broken. They are full.

Full of stories living rent-free in their head and in their body. Full of feelings that were never given a place to land. In cultures where composure is expected and caretaking others is a given, the inner life accumulates quietly. We function. We hold space for everyone else. We suppress without realising that what we suppress doesn't disappear. It moves inward.

Coaching with Rumah Empati begins and ends with the body. We open by inviting the body to become the source of authority. There is data and information here. Wisdom that stillness can access if we allow it. From that grounded place, we work with what you are carrying through empathic listening and the OFNR framework. Your story, your anger, your grief, your unlived life. All of it is allowed to be present.

We close with body shaking and gratitude breathing, returning the body to its natural state before you step back into your life.

What emerges is awareness, and from awareness, shift begins to happen.

Consultation

For organisations ready to build something that actually fits.

Most wellbeing programmes fail not because the content is wrong. They fail because they were designed for a different organisation, a different culture, or a different problem.

We work alongside HR leads, L&D teams, and organisational leaders to design programmes grounded in your actual reality. That means listening before proposing. Understanding your people, your culture, and what’s quietly not working before a single module is built.

Our consultation work spans corporate training design, psychoeducation curriculum, and socio-emotional frameworks for non-clinical workplace contexts. We have also contributed to policy-level research on sustainable mental health support, which informs how we think about systemic care, not just individual wellbeing.

The result is a programme your people will recognise as true.

Retreats

For those who need to come home to themselves.

Most of us are not resting. We are just pausing between demands.

A retreat is something different. It is a container. A deliberate slowing down in a place where nature is not just something to look at but something to learn from. Where silence is not emptiness but information. Where the body, finally still, begins to speak.

We hold our retreats at Bukit Temawang in Karangasem, Bali, under the watch of Mount Agung. Small by design, six participants at most. Over 3 days and 2 nights, we practice together through meditation, self-empathy, somatic work, yoga, digital detox, and Non-Sleep Deep Rest. We meet you where you are. This is a space for beginners and intermediate practitioners alike. No prior experience needed, only openness and willingness to do the work.

We have held space for people arriving carrying grudges, exhaustion, noise. A teacher who needed to be refilled. A professional whose body had started twitching from overwork. Someone who had never meditated, never done yoga, and left saying everyone needs this.

What most of us have forgotten is not how to work harder. It is how to rest deeply.

Welcome home, anak empati.


  1. Empathy Retreat runs 2 to 3 times a year. Open registration. Beginners welcome.
  2. Bespoke retreats are available for organisations and groups. Co-design with Rumah Empati for your specific intention.
  3. Bukit Temawang is also available as a venue for groups organising their own retreat in Bali.

Frameworks

Nonviolent Communication (Marshall B. Rosenberg)

Nonviolent Communication is based on the principle of Ahimsa, the natural state of compassion when no violence is present in the heart.” —Marshall Rosenberg, founder of NVC.

The purpose of Nonviolent Communication is to fully value everyone’s well being, and to create a certain quality of connection where everyone’s needs can be met through natural giving.

Social-Emotional Ethical Learning (Emory University)

SEE Learning® (Social, Emotional, and Ethical Learning) is a comprehensive curriculum for students from ages 3-19 developed at Emory University that advances the field of social and emotional learning by incorporating the science of compassion. SEE Learning provides students and educators worldwide with an evidence-based program that cultivates compassionate individuals, schools, and communities.

Compassion Cultivation Training© (Thupten Jinpa, Stanford University)

CCT™ was developed in 2009 at Stanford University by principal author Thupten Jinpa, Ph.D, with contributions from our Founding Faculty.

An 8-week program for the general public, Compassion Cultivation Training© (CCT™) draws on insights and techniques from psychology, neuroscience, and contemplative practice.

The course integrates evidence-based meditation techniques, interactive discussions, and lectures as well as real-world exercises to put learning into practice.

CCT™ is taught worldwide and offers practical skills, tools, and knowledge. Establish the habit of relating to yourself, others, and the world around you from a place of greater understanding, joy, and purpose.

The Work (Byron Katie)

The Work is meditation. It is a method of inquiry born directly out of Byron Katie’s experience. This practice allows you to access the wisdom that always exists within you.

An Invitation to Inquiry
I discovered that when I believed my thoughts I suffered, but when I didn’t believe them I didn’t suffer, and that this is true for every human being. Freedom is as simple as that. I found that suffering is optional. I found a joy within me that has never disappeared, not for a single moment. That joy is in everyone, always. And I invite you not to believe me. I invite you to test it for yourself. – Byron Katie
Work That Reconnects (Joanna Macy)

The Work That Reconnects is meant for anyone who longs to serve the healing of our world in a more powerful and effective way. This interactive group process was developed by Joanna Macy, in cooperation with many colleagues, over several decades. The Work That Reconnects draws on foundational teachings, including Systems Thinking, Deep Ecology and Deep Time, Spiritual Traditions and Undoing Oppression.

“The Work That Reconnects helps people discover and experience their innate connections with each other and the self-healing powers of the web of life, transforming despair and overwhelm into inspired, collaborative action.”
– Joanna Macy